WHY????

My family always makes jokes about me hiding in my room but I'm not hiding( unless my moms cranky then i am hiding) I'm just doing stuff what would i do out of my room whats my room for if I'm not suppose to be in it
But today my mom yelled at me about not hearing her its not my fault i didn't hear i was in my room the door was open and i wasn't listening to anything(witch happens once every million years) and she told me to quit daydreaming which is basically telling me to grow up and the thing i was daydreaming about was not growing up